MONEY IS A LIFE TOOL NOT LIFE
Money is not everything, but money is important. Beyond the basic need, money help us to achieve our life's goals and supports all the things we care about most deeply like family, education, health care, charity, adventure and fun. It help us to get some life's impalpable things - freedom and independence. All the basics things that everyone wants in their life like, food, house, clothes, education, financial security etc. can be given by money and we can avoid unnecessary suffering...
HOW MUCH DO YOU NEED...What is going to cost to get it?
These two questions come to mind, which gives us a true sense of money's relationship to happiness. If we have less than what we need, or if what we have is costing us too much,then we can never be happy. We need money to eat, sleep, dress, work, play, relate, heal, move about, and enjoy comforts. We should remember in choosing our style that it comes with a price tag..
"We always think if we just had a little bit more money, we'd be happier" but when we get there we are not.....even "Once you get basic human needs met, a lot more money doesn't make a lot more happiness"......lots of psychological facts say the same... we as a person does not need plenty of money we just need it in adequate amount which can help us live a well being life...all we need is satisfaction, if you have that then you never wish for lots of money you just think that money is just a tool for life journey....not the life....
Everyone gets thrilled at first from expensive things, but we soon get used to them and soon we don't get happiness from that anymore..the tendency of a person to get happiness from such thing is relatively low because the rise in income can make you happy for a short period not for long...so they don't give us happiness......because the rise in income can make you happy for a short period not for long...so they don't give us happiness... The problem is not money, it's us. For deep-seated psychological reasons, when it comes to spending money, we tend to value goods over experiences.
Money can help us find more happiness, so long as we know just what we can and cannot expect from it. Many types of research suggest that seeking the good life at a store is an expensive exercise in futility. Money can buy us some happiness, but only if we spend our money properly.
We should buy memories. How much money it costs is not the issue, but how much the money costs us is important. Money should not cost us our soul, relationships, dignity, health, intelligence, and joy in simple things of life. People who figure out what they truly value and then align their money with those values have the strongest sense of financial and personal well-being.
CREATE GOALS BEYOND MONEY...
Chasing more money is a futile journey that only leads us to stress and frustration. If our goal is more money, we will never have enough. There is always “more” money to obtain to spend on “more” material and experiential things. We will never truly be satisfied with such a mindset. we can identify the specific goals that would actually make a positive difference in our lives. Here are some points which really help us in our life's...
- We can see what is truly important to us.
- We realize that money is not actually a goal, but a tool to help us along the way.
- Our goals are flexible and can be adjusted to fit our financial circumstances.
- Satisfaction is within our reach… we just need to plan for it.
“I want more money.”“I need to save more money.”“I wish I had more money.”
WHEN, MONEY IS ENOUGH?
It’s not surprising that We. Focus. On. Money. All. The. Time.