Happiness......The Trap of Society...

Happiness: A Trap

What is happiness, what makes you happy, are you happy?? Lots of people ask questions like this and some are finding answers for this but only a few know the answer and we call them happy peoples.....
             Again what is happiness in real? It's is a skill you can learn and practice for the rest of your life. Whether you drive from happiness, or simply grow happiness right under your feet...you can draw from many sources to help you on your journey like be with others who make you smile, a study shows that we are happiest when we are around those who are also happy...below mentioned are also somethings you can do to find happiness:-
  1. Hold on to your values...
  2. Accept the good...
  3. Imagine the best...
  4. Do things you love...
  5. Find purpose...
  6. Push yourself, not others...
But again a question comes to my mind what makes us happy? there are lots of answers to this but it varies with different peoples, whomever you meet they have their own priorities and reason for being happy.... some get happiness by talking to their loved one, some by watching or playing their favorite game or movies and so on...


WHY HAPPINESS IS A TRAP?

There are lots of reasons why it's a trap, It traps because from the birth of a child the society teaches to them that money, good car, luxury life, good job, or success will give you happiness...... But nobody tells them that happiness is just a state of mind nothing else a poor man can be a happy person, a man with a disability can be happy, failure can also give happiness...
Once Albert Einstein told that "A calm and modest life brings more happiness than the pursuit of success combined with constant restlessness".....  

Nobody wants to understand the concept of happiness they just think that huge money, big house, immense success will lead them to be happy....some people find happiness in materialistic things like expensive cars, phones, clothes and so on.....it may make you happy but just for some time but after that, you will find it's just worthless because desires have never ended......for example -  a mother get immense happiness just looking to their kids playing, nothing in this world can buy that happiness to her....so stop wasting your time to find the success to be happy. Be happy in any situation whether it's failure or success (because if you are unhappy at your own failure then still you cant get happiness so be happy and enjoy that moment that you learn something new with this failure... )


True happiness

"True happiness is enjoying your own company and leave with peace and harmony with your body, mind, and soul. True happiness is a state of mind constantly being in love with yourself, for being truly happy you neither need other people, not materialistic things...Happiness is the consequence of personal effort nothing else. 
In other words, happiness comes when you feel satisfied and fulfilled, happiness is a feeling of contentment that life is just as it should be...Happiness is that feeling that comes over you when you know life is good and you can't help but smile. It's the opposite of sadness. Happy people live longer and they have better relationships.

As there is a famous saying -

“Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of life, the whole aim and end of human existence” – Aristotle

So be happy and live your life don't regret, you are best as your own, focus more on being happy instead of running after success... 

Hope this article will help you in your life.....

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