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The Magic of Words

I always wonder words have a bigger impact than any other thing in this world. There is no such dispute which can’t be solved by words. The guns, swords, canons, and any other weapon cant do everything but words can. You may be thinking Do words are that much power, so yes they are very powerful and magical too. But how words can be used to build yourself powerful, well the use of words in proper order and in very calmly can help you out.

If we have seen in the elections how politicians used to deliver their speech and we all believe in that and after they won do they do anything, I don’t think so but still, they manage to get votes just because of words, they use in proper order. So what magic do words contain which can make an angry person calm and a calm person to be angry, it just depends on a person who knows how to implement the right word at right time.

Words are Powerful

Today when I am writing this post I am getting immense happiness as I want to tell the world how much the words are powerful. Yes, you read it right words are powerful it can create a moment or even to destroy it all depends on how wisely we choose our words. a writer especially a poet is one of the biggest magicians how? I will tell you because a poet or a writer knows how to use words wisely, a writer can make anybody happy or sad just in a moment he knows how to play with your mind with words. you might have observed when we watch movies or read books we used to think about some characters or sometimes about the whole story why? It's all about the story and the proper sentiments that a writer has planted in the story. That’s is the beauty of words.

A writer can walk through your mind and can play with it, lets take a very constructive example we have noticed a motivational speaker how he motivates us. What does he do nothing he just uses his words very carefully and makes a sentence that just strikes our mind. Even we feel motivated and get enthusiastic to do some hard work to achieve our goals.

Let's take another example of salesmen, there are lots of time a salesman come to our door or we go to stores but we do not have to buy any product. But we end up buying that how? Just because of the powerful marketing wording that he used on us, it’s a trick anyone can learn.

Finally, I want to tell you the worse part about the magic of words. lots of terrorist groups used this trick on innocent civilians and children to make them militants. They brainwash their minds and used them to destroy the peace of the world we read and see in the newspaper and on tv respectively that how terrorist groups use innocent people to be suicide bomber and other engage themselves in other terrorist activity.  

From all these examples we learned how powerful the words are, but keep in mind to use them properly so you don’t hurt people but can create peace and harmony. Use the power of words to change the world and make difference by finishing the discrimination and other stereotypes and superstitions.


How to Choose Words Wisely

It's not that much hard to choose your words carefully you just have to think twice to use any word because as we know once the words are said they can only be forgiven, not forgotten. Always taste your words before you spit, good words make a person and his image good but bad words can spoil the reputation of a good man too.

The words that we use must be encouraging not discouraging because the world wants motivated people, not negative people. But if there is any situation where we have to use such words to show someone's reality then yes we have to use such words but only in a positive manner that can make everyone aware of that.

Lastly, I just want to tell the readers that use this powerful weapon to change the world, even not world than society or at least your own life. What we hardly have to do is just we have to think before we speak and use good words, moreover of that, we have to use the word which people like because in the end people remember by your thoughts.

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The irony of a Common Indian: Stereotypes of Indian’s Mentality

From the title of this blog, you get my point and the idea of what I want to deliver here. If you are an Indian then it’s for you and if not Indian then you have to read it to learn more, it's not just because I want to point out the mistakes we do but we can assure ourselves to raise a voice against it and can improve. What irony is it? It generally means an expression that one makes but the result is different and we have to empathize with that, also the language we use in it sounds in a taunt and in a humorous way.

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India is a land of culture, tradition, custom, religion, diversity, Gods, food, heritage, ancient history, oldest civilization, democracy, languages, secularism, brightest mind, brave soldier, agriculture, festivals, and a lot more (no one can write about India and it’s all diversified culture because for that we need to write a whole book). All of this I mentioned is true to a larger extent but what I am going to tell is also true to some extent, India is also a land of corruption, false beliefs, fake monks, fake spiritual leaders, corrupt politicians, hunger, poor people, bundles of illiterate fellows, jobless graduate, vast population, stereotypes and a lot of ironies.

Yes, we indeed have to accept it….lets take a look from the Indian's perspective to understand it is a better way because as I earlier mentioned all we have is stereotypes and irony in ourselves by default.

Common Indian Perspective for Stereotypes

All Indians have a level of hypocrisy because whenever any social conflicts occur everybody uses to filter them according to their needs. No one accepts right or wrong all have a sabbatical mind to debate. Indians are the only ones who believe that to marry a stranger is common but talking to a stranger is dangerous. No one can change this mentality until and even we do anything on this we have to think before we do anything like this and have to break the ice. Our parents teach us this but now when we can make decisions we have to change this mentality.

Few more examples that will show you the real picture of Indians stereotype are as follow:-

·       It is okay to piss in public but not okay to kiss ( even you are married you have to think twice to shit in a park together, you never know from where the Bajrang-Dal people will come and beat you even the Police will see you with doubt).

·       Using vile words in English is considered cool and in Hindi it uncool and it is no doubt if someone thinks that you are uncouth, the obsession for English is bigger than the National language ( everyone wants to speak in English but how Many of them want to communicate in Hindi. English became a status symbol).

·       Lots of Hindu and Muslim fight for their religious book Gita and Quran respectively but no one has read that book completely either (all books convey the message for peace but both the community wants to see their school of thoughts upper).

·       In Elections usually, in other countries, people vote for deserving candidates but in India, the Indians vote for a less disliked candidate (criticism for a politician is another thing but to vote for the candidate who is not deserving is not right either).

·       In a country where the cow is considered as your mother and daughter are considered as lord Laxmi, but still ‘bethi baap ke kandho par bojh hai’. I don’t understand this sort of irony and why here in India a father spends more money on his daughter's wedding than her studies.

·       You need to be qualify or educated for a government peon, but you can run the whole a country without even attending school or college ( the unbelievable truth no politician needs to show their mark sheet to be a minister)

·       All the parents want to see their kids become big sportsmen and actors or businessmen but how many of them want to sacrifice like the fathers of these big personalities did.

·       Film actors earn more money from one film than the lifetime income of a soldier ( Indian soldier doesn’t get fame even after martyr then a film stars an infant baby gets)

·       Poor people don’t have food to eat and we waste food at weddings.

·       People used to donate to the temple more than to give the poor and to donate to educational and health institutes.

·       Everyone wants to get a degree but no one wants knowledge.

·       We Indians have to see both the side of the road before crossing even the road is one-way.


All of these points are just an outlook of Indian’s mentality and what they are suffering from. I am an Indian too I feel very bad by looking at those things, but a single one cant do anything we need to be united and have to change all of this. We don’t need to do much we just have to change our mentality and the world around us will automatically change.

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Maturity: Comes with Age or Experience

It’s been a topic of debate for the word Maturity that does it comes with age or experiences. Lots of people say it comes with age and few say it comes with experiences who is right here? I think both are right as I said it’s a topic of debate but today we are not going to debate here but will show some facts that show maturity never comes it just an unending trap of life. Yes you read it right it’s an unending trap but how. I will tell you, you may have observed a diabetic person (who is old) but still, he asks for sugar or sweets to eat so what would we say is immature, no you read above that maturity comes with age then what except more than a 65-year-old man.

So one thing it is clear here is that maturity does not come up with age but can come with experiences and with the growing age you get experience. So here is a question does experience only come up with age? No, there are different sorts of person who think differently yes it is true that when you are growing in your life you get some experience but not every. So one thing is clear maturity can come up with experiences doesn’t matter what your age is, it just matters when an individual gets an experience of something.

A men who is thinking 

How to Get Maturity?

There is nothing rocket science to get maturity in life, with the experiences whether it's good or bad we made choices every time and that’s necessary. When we made choices we also made consequences of that choice well some people know about the consequences and some don’t. so maturity is the key factor that depends on personal choices and how he reacts to them when a person gets himself engage in taking care of him, happiness, and the things that get in the way because of his choices.

When a person takes responsibility for his actions whether it's good or bad then we can say he is mature enough because without excusing accepting mistakes or even the credit. A person who is sensitive to others and having the ability to change and adapt to circumstances is known to be mature person. But child like behaviour in any age can just be a matter of choice he wants to show.

How a Mature Person Behaves?

Every person behaves same but there are some certain situation where some unique  behaviour is require and thats the time you can recognize and differentiate between mature and immature person.

So what are the key points by which we can identify a mature person lets take a look;

·       A person who never runs from his responsibility, he always take care of his promises and responsibility.

·       He always used to learn new things and make himself updated according to situations.

·       He communicates clearly and he will not be uncomfortable in telling what he actually wants in his life. But its also seen lot of people did not say things clearly we called them smart.

·       He knows his boundaries and did cross the limit.

·       Taking care of everything and a optimistic person sounds mature.

This all points are just observation-based some might not be applicable in real life because every person have some different situation and we can't accept the same behaviour every time from him.

Few more things like realizing how much you don’t know or you are not aware of can be a sign of maturity because immature thinks he knows everything. In a life full of twist and turns we even forget to be happy and that’s most important bu a mature person always take care of his love ones and himself to be happy. It is also a fact that mature people talik less and listen more ( but don’t judge by anyone from this)…

The Final Verdict

All the things we have read is based on factual and observation-based but as we talked in the starting, maturity is nothing is just an unending trap. How it is an unending trap? It's not difficult to answer this question as the answer is in the question itself because at every on every small mistake people will tell you that you are immature and to not do mistakes we are not God.

Lots of time situation are not under our control and people called it wrong decision and call immaturity. So we cant stand and build ourself as the world wants but we can build ourself in a manner we want and can learn the basic things from our past mistakes and can implement in life.

Maturity is nothing it's all about the wrong and good decision moreover our life actions, that makes any person mature and good decision only come up after bad decision.

Experience

“People used to get success from the good decision and good decision come up from experience and experience come up from bad decision”.

All of this is interconnected and that what we have to learn.

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Traveling: The Joy

With the globalization of the world, traveling also increased, in earlier times people used to travel in limited boundaries but now they don’t have many limits. Lots of people used to travel and explore new things but not everyone, some people likes to be at their home and pack themselves in a bubble (their world). But in my opinion, traveling is one of the best adventures you must have to do in your lives, try to explore the new world. The world is not what we see from others sight like watching the world on television and the internet is something different but going there and feeling the vibes is different.

Because when we go to someplace we have our point of view to understand the things and to feel. Lots of people here would say we don’t have time, we don’t have money. Yes, I understand the problem but nobody is telling you to stop working and go on a trip but In a year you can make one week available for you and the person who says we don’t have money. Okay, no problem at least go to your nearby places or roam in your city.

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The joy of traveling is amazing you might have observed whenever we go on any trip or new places the memories are always been remembered, as there is a famous saying “do some fun in your life because when you look back in your life the money, marks or any other thing might not give you happiness but memories will do”.

 

Why Travelling is Important?

I will not be going to answer it, do me a favor go to a nearby place in your city or town (a famous place) or if you don’t find anything famous then just go sunrise point or sunset point and feel the beauty of nature and the vibes (you will feel energetic and enthusiastic). The feeling and the memories are most important, some memories just occur and some have to be created, and traveling is the created memories. Everyone might remember the school picnic from packing to the ending of the trip all was fun and the excitement to go on a picnic was just awesome.

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When we travel in new places we explore and find new people, the mesmerizing beauty of nature, food, creativity, and self-satisfaction. Besides that when we travel our mind opens and we get a lot of creative ideas (which we can implement in our personal and professional life), the curiosity of knowing new things ignite us. Experiencing life in different ways can be a definition of traveling as it is the best remedy for stress, anxiety, and depression.

There is an obvious reason to go on traveling that you don’t have to go to work, but besides this finding time from the busy routine and make your self free to experience new climatic conditions and the adventure can help you to rewire your brain that can boost your confidence and mood in different ways.

How Travelling Can Help You in Life.

travelling quote travel is good for the soul a small bus with luggage

Traveling habit can change your life completely, your way of seeing the world will change completely. Whatever you experience during the time of traveling your experience is unique, you learn lots of things from nature itself like going with the flow, valuing experiences over things is more important. When you travel you learn to live every moment of your life instead of living for more decades. Because you know when you are somewhere else the moment you are living there will never going to come again in your life. So enjoy every moment and life happily, memorize are the most expensive thing no matter how rich you are you can’t buy time and memorize.

As there is a famous saying “The World Is A Book And Those Who Do Not Travel Read Only A Page” don’t bound yourself to the read-only page, read the whole book so you can understand the world.

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Farmers the Meal of your Day

Food comes under the most essential thing a human needs to survive.Without it we would die in just few days or months. When we eat food, we might compliment for the cook and we have to be but have you ever thought who grows that food, no one right. Farmers are the brave community that grow food for us, but we never thank them for their sacrifice. Today we hear that lots of farmers commits suicide but why? May be some farmer's crop destroy because of weather and other climate issues (yes we can’t do anything for that but may be our government can do something for them by compensating them). But one reason is also that we do not give them the proper price for their crop.

Few people will ask here that price of vegetables and cereals is increasing so the farmers are getting good amount, but that’s not the truth the middle men/brokers and big corporate is taking advantage somewhere between.

 Farmers for Us

Farmers matters a lot for the world, without them the life is close to impossible. Have you ever thought to be hungry for two days, no you can’t you need something to eat. Today when you eat your food,thank to farmers who gave you that, he works so hard barefooted under the sunlight just for us. It’s okay to give the good price for their hard work but with that we need to respect them and their sentiments.

   Big corporate families are taking the advantage from poor and illiterate farmers, by signing contract with them, government is not even taking proper care of poor farmers. Good rules and regulations and new reforms must be introduced to protect the farmers community. Today the situation is that much worse that no farmer wants to see his daughter and son to become farmer. All want to see their children to be employee in big corporates and that mindset is lacking the traditional farming business.  

We need to change the mentality of farmer by providing them all the necessary things they want in life so they do not have to sellto big corporate and do not stop farming. It’s a fact that everyone needs a comfortable life but nobody cares about who is putting efforts in making that life comfortable. Similar is the case with food also, everyone needs tasty food but does anyone care from where it is coming and after how much efforts that food is coming in plate.

The Basic Philosophy for Agriculture 

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In ancient time,everyone used to do farming for their own food, but with the change in time human felt to work in some other field as well. So few  left farming and few made it business, today we know all the vegetables and crops have very harmful and toxic chemicals in it. Big corporate are using the agriculture as a business not in a devotion to provide food but farmers are not like that they used to grow crop to satisfy hunger.

So what are the steps which can help in saving the essentials commodity that is Farmers? Lots of steps can help like

  • ·       Giving the proper price for their crops
  • ·       If any farmer's crop is destroyed  because of climatic conditions then compensation must be given
  • ·        We can give loans to farmers on less interest.
  • ·       The water, irrigation and electricity can be provide on subsidised rates to farmers
  • ·       Good seeds, fertilizers and other necessary items can be given on subsidy for farmers.
  • ·       Warehouse facilities at every local place can be provided at cheap rates so during harvesting season they don’t need to rush to sell their crop in market.
  • ·       Last but not the least, we need to respect the farmers and have to cherish them with love.

All the above mentioned points if followed in a manner then it can be possible that farmers will work more efficiently and will not think to quit farming. From the big cities when we look at farmers life we don’t care much about them but its high time to address their issues to so an harmony can develop between other communities and farmers.

As there is famous saying ‘farmers don’t just work till the sun goes down, they work till the job gets done’ so we have to learn the patience and dedication from farmers as they grow the whole crop just from a little seed. Farmers are the founders of human civilization, so don’t forget them at any cost.


Farmers must be respected
    

MONEY IS A LIFE TOOL NOT LIFE

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Money is not everything, but money is important. Beyond the basic need, money help us to achieve our life's goals and supports all the things we care about most deeply like family, education, health care, charity, adventure and fun. It help us to get some life's impalpable things - freedom and independence. All the basics things that everyone wants in their life like, food, house, clothes, education, financial security etc. can be given by money and we can avoid unnecessary suffering...

Money has its own limitations too , it can give us a well being life but can't give the happiness every time, it can only give us gifts, and time to develop our self but not the courage and discipline to do so.
Money can give us all the comforts that we all need in our life and also the power to make a difference in lives of others but not the desire to do.It can give us the time to develop and nurture our relationships, but not the love and caring necessary to do so.It can easily made us escapist, selfish and lonely too.

HOW MUCH DO YOU NEED...What is going to cost to get it?

These two questions come to mind, which gives us a true sense of money's relationship to happiness. If we have less than what we need, or if what we have is costing us too much,then we can never be happy. We need money to eat, sleep, dress, work, play, relate, heal, move about, and enjoy comforts. We should remember in choosing our style that it comes with a price tag.. 

"We always think if we just had a little bit more money, we'd be happier" but when we get there we are not.....even "Once you get basic human needs met, a lot more money doesn't make a lot more happiness"......lots of  psychological facts say the same... we as a person does not need plenty of money we just need it in adequate amount which can help us live a well being life...all we need is satisfaction, if you have that then you never wish for lots of money you just think that money is just a tool for life journey....not the life.... 

Everyone gets thrilled at first from expensive things, but we soon get used to them and soon we don't get happiness from that anymore..the tendency of a person to get happiness from such thing is relatively low because the rise in income can make you happy for a short period not for long...so they don't give us happiness......because the rise in income can make you happy for a short period not for long...so they don't give us happiness... The problem is not money, it's us. For deep-seated psychological reasons, when it comes to spending money, we tend to value goods over experiences.

Money can help us find more happiness, so long as we know just what we can and cannot expect from it. Many types of research suggest that seeking the good life at a store is an expensive exercise in futility. Money can buy us some happiness, but only if we spend our money properly.

 We should buy memories. How much money it costs is not the issue, but how much the money costs us is important. Money should not cost us our soul, relationships, dignity, health, intelligence, and joy in simple things of life. People who figure out what they truly value and then align their money with those values have the strongest sense of financial and personal well-being.

CREATE GOALS BEYOND MONEY...

Chasing more money is a futile journey that only leads us to stress and frustration. If our goal is more money, we will never have enough.  There is always “more” money to obtain to spend on “more” material and experiential things. We will never truly be satisfied with such a mindset. we can identify the specific goals that would actually make a positive difference in our lives. Here are some points which really help us in our life's...

  1. We can see what is truly important to us.
  2. We realize that money is not actually a goal, but a tool to help us along the way.
  3. Our goals are flexible and can be adjusted to fit our financial circumstances.
  4. Satisfaction is within our reach… we just need to plan for it.

We focus on those things that give us the utmost satisfaction and leave us feeling content. (Yes, we can actually feel this way). This is often a peaceful place and one where we can create a clear vision for how we can use our money as a tool to achieve the most important things in life......
“I want more money.”
“I need to save more money.”
“I wish I had more money.”
I hear these phrases all the time -- and I’m guilty of saying them, too. While it’s natural to think this way, doing so only creates more stress around money. When we look at more money as the ultimate goal, we will never feel satisfied that we have enough. However, when viewed as a means to an end, we realize that we can afford anything.....so create goals beyond money, money is just a bifactor.

WHEN, MONEY IS ENOUGH?


Money is everywhere in society. That’s a fact, not a judgment. It helps us function daily. Whether you use it to pay your mortgage or to cover your expenses, money is essential for most people. We also want those nice-to-have elements like travel and social life, which requires more money.

It’s not surprising that We. Focus. On. Money. All. The. Time.

I’ve never met anyone who can’t generate a list of things on which they would spend money if provided the means to do so. From this standpoint, it’s logical to think that we must need more money to live a fulfilling life. The challenge we face is actually wrapping our minds around the concept of “more money.” What does that mean and how do we know when we achieve “more?” The very fact when we get the satisfaction that yes we are living in a comfortable zone and every need is fulfilled, that's the time we have to realize that instead of running behind the money we have to live in harmony and peace without jeopardizing our goals of being happy .....then we can say money is enough ...

Keep smiling and make your life goal to be happy not to be greedy about money and try to get satisfaction in whatever we have instead of comparing with others; If you like this story don't forget to comment, share, and subscribe to the writer's irony.

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Happiness: A Trap

What is happiness, what makes you happy, are you happy?? Lots of people ask questions like this and some are finding answers for this but only a few know the answer and we call them happy peoples.....
             Again what is happiness in real? It's is a skill you can learn and practice for the rest of your life. Whether you drive from happiness, or simply grow happiness right under your feet...you can draw from many sources to help you on your journey like be with others who make you smile, a study shows that we are happiest when we are around those who are also happy...below mentioned are also somethings you can do to find happiness:-
  1. Hold on to your values...
  2. Accept the good...
  3. Imagine the best...
  4. Do things you love...
  5. Find purpose...
  6. Push yourself, not others...
But again a question comes to my mind what makes us happy? there are lots of answers to this but it varies with different peoples, whomever you meet they have their own priorities and reason for being happy.... some get happiness by talking to their loved one, some by watching or playing their favorite game or movies and so on...


WHY HAPPINESS IS A TRAP?

There are lots of reasons why it's a trap, It traps because from the birth of a child the society teaches to them that money, good car, luxury life, good job, or success will give you happiness...... But nobody tells them that happiness is just a state of mind nothing else a poor man can be a happy person, a man with a disability can be happy, failure can also give happiness...
Once Albert Einstein told that "A calm and modest life brings more happiness than the pursuit of success combined with constant restlessness".....  

Nobody wants to understand the concept of happiness they just think that huge money, big house, immense success will lead them to be happy....some people find happiness in materialistic things like expensive cars, phones, clothes and so on.....it may make you happy but just for some time but after that, you will find it's just worthless because desires have never ended......for example -  a mother get immense happiness just looking to their kids playing, nothing in this world can buy that happiness to her....so stop wasting your time to find the success to be happy. Be happy in any situation whether it's failure or success (because if you are unhappy at your own failure then still you cant get happiness so be happy and enjoy that moment that you learn something new with this failure... )


True happiness

"True happiness is enjoying your own company and leave with peace and harmony with your body, mind, and soul. True happiness is a state of mind constantly being in love with yourself, for being truly happy you neither need other people, not materialistic things...Happiness is the consequence of personal effort nothing else. 
In other words, happiness comes when you feel satisfied and fulfilled, happiness is a feeling of contentment that life is just as it should be...Happiness is that feeling that comes over you when you know life is good and you can't help but smile. It's the opposite of sadness. Happy people live longer and they have better relationships.

As there is a famous saying -

“Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of life, the whole aim and end of human existence” – Aristotle

So be happy and live your life don't regret, you are best as your own, focus more on being happy instead of running after success... 

Hope this article will help you in your life.....

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